Growing up in another land, after emigrating from Zimbabwe at age eight, meant that for a long time I lived as a foreigner. Everything was unfamiliar and unknown. This sense of displacement shadowed me for many of my growing years. Most of my jobs and studies were because I sort of ‘ fell’ into them, and to this day I have no recollection of “what I wanted to be when I grew up”.

However, after lots of very painful broken friendships and relationships, I just knew two things: I wanted to change the relational pattern in my life and I wanted to help others in their relationships.

Many of the signs pointed to Life Coaching and I was pretty resistant at first. But I followed that path, very consciously choosing to walk that journey myself first. Standing in front of that mirror has been joyful, freeing, embarrassing, at times painful and so life-giving! It is also the reason I feel able to serve my clients so well. Speaking with someone that understands the personal growth journey and has the courage to walk that road, allows for a very different conversation to take place.

I’m happily married to an enthusiastic, vibrant entrepreneur and am Mom to four wonderful humans - two boys and two girls. It’s a full life and I’m grateful to call it mine. But, let’s be real, this is where all my theories on relationship get tested and challenged!

I’ve always loved questions more than answers, curiosity more than direction. The more I meet with people individually, the more I desire to offer freedoms from self-inflicted restrictions. We are more connected than we ever expected, with so many of the same doubts and fears. Building these bridges, holding the kind of conversations that touch on real stuff, is me at my most alive!